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Studying after 40 is both a wild adventure and a serious test of patience and here’s what I learned from diving back into university life mid-career and what it’s really like to study later in life, while working, managing a household.
A new chapter I didn’t plan for – but needed
In 2023, I made a decision that surprised a few people (including myself): I started a Bachelor of Science in Nursing while working part-time. Over 40, married, and with a busy household, I felt ready for something new. I’ve always believed in lifelong learning, and this felt like the right moment to invest in myself and my knowledge.
I just didn’t realise how much of myself it would require.
Yes, studying is possible. No, it’s not easier with age.
Let’s be honest: learning in your 40s is not the same as learning in your 20s. My brain and I have a very different relationship now. It takes me longer to concentrate, I need more breaks, and memorising things doesn’t happen quite as naturally anymore. Coffee helps, but only so much.
One of the biggest challenges? Time.
Balancing work, studies, housework, and being a good partner is no small task. I often find myself switching from academic writing to grocery lists within minutes and it’s exhausting. Honestly, I deeply admire every woman who does this and raises children. You deserve a gold medal.
Being one of the oldest students in the room
Another thing I didn’t expect was how it would feel to be among the oldest in my class. At first, it was intimidating, I questioned whether I would fit in, or whether I had waited too long. But as time went on, I realised: age isn’t the barrier I thought it would be.
In fact, it sometimes became a strength. I bring life experience into discussions, and I’ve made genuine connections with classmates of all ages. I’ve even made a few new friendships that I truly value.
The good stuff: growth, perspective, purpose
Despite the challenges, this journey has been full of positives.
I’ve learned so much, things I can directly apply in my professional work, which makes the effort feel worthwhile. It’s given me a renewed sense of purpose and reminded me why I chose this field in the first place.
Now, as I enter the 4th out of 5 semesters, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. The end is in sight, and I won’t pretend I’m not relieved. But I’m also proud of how far I’ve come and grateful for everything I’ve learned along the way.
Final thoughts: worth it, but not easy
Studying after 40 is possible, rewarding, and empowering but it’s not easy.
It takes organisation, motivation, and a lot of self-compassion. If you’re thinking about going back to school later in life: do it. Just be realistic. It might take longer. It might feel harder. But the growth is real and so is the satisfaction.
And yes, I’m already planning a very long nap when I graduate.
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